About Rafael

The part of your week
that's just for you.

I'm Brazilian, been in Sydney over ten years. I work in finance during the week — a Masters degree, an analytical mind, and a genuine curiosity about people. I train most mornings. Natural bodybuilding is my thing — no shortcuts, just discipline and consistency.

But the part of me you'll notice first isn't the physique. It's the way I pay attention.

I like making people feel good about themselves. Not in a rehearsed way — I mean actually noticing what makes someone light up and leaning into that. I'm affectionate. I'm kind. I'll hold you like I mean it because I do.

Most of my clients tell me the best part wasn't what they expected. It was feeling heard. Feeling wanted. Feeling like they could completely relax around someone without performing or explaining themselves.

Based in

Sydney

Age

Build

Athletic

Orientation

Straight

Your First Time?

Here's exactly what happens.

If you've been thinking about this for a while but haven't been sure — you're not alone. Most women I meet are first-timers. That nervousness you're feeling right now is completely normal. Here's how it works, step by step, so nothing is a surprise.

You reach out

Book online, send a message, or ask a question through the chat widget. No commitment. I respond personally — never a third party, never a bot.

We have a conversation

A quick, casual exchange where we cover what you're looking for, any questions you have, and the simple screening process. This is where you decide if I feel right.

You choose the details

Pick the date, time, and location. Most clients book a hotel — I can suggest a few beautiful, discreet options in Sydney. I come to you. All venue and dining costs are yours to arrange.

We meet

I arrive on time, well-dressed, genuinely happy to see you. We start with conversation — maybe wine, maybe just a comfortable silence. Everything unfolds at your pace. No script, no pressure.

Experiences

Your time, your way.

Every experience is different because every woman is different. Whether you want conversation, touch, adventure, or all three — we build it around what you need. All venue, dining, and hotel costs are arranged by you as the host.

The First Meet

30 minutes

A coffee, a walk, a conversation. No expectations. Just a chance to meet and see if the chemistry is right. If you've been going back and forth — start here.

$150

The Escape

1 hour

When you need to feel something real, even if just for a moment. A taste of what it's like to be the centre of someone's full, undivided attention.

$400

The Evening

2 hours

Enough time to actually relax, let your guard down, and feel the tension leave your body. Includes a full sensual massage. This is where most women realise what they've been missing.

$600

Most Chosen

The Date

3 hours

Dinner, wine, real conversation — then somewhere private where the night becomes yours. The full experience. Only $100 more than two hours — and that extra hour changes everything.

$700

Overnight

10 hours

Fall asleep held. Wake up to coffee and that feeling of being wanted. Extended intimacy with no clock watching. The kind of night you deserve.

$2,000

Couples

from 2 hours

For couples ready to explore with someone experienced and comfortable in the room. I've been in the lifestyle community for years — zero awkwardness, clear boundaries, and an experience that brings you closer together. Camera-friendly.

$700 / 2hrs

A note on value: The jump from 2 hours to 3 hours is only $100. Most women who start with 2 hours wish they'd booked 3. If you're unsure, go with The Date. You'll thank yourself.

For Those Who Want More

Exploration & Kink

I'm deeply experienced in the kink and BDSM community — as a dom for brats and subs, and as someone who understands that dominance is about trust, not force. I bring a full kit: rope, cuffs, blindfold, flogger, collar, and more. And the knowledge to use them with precision and care.

We discuss everything beforehand — your boundaries, your curiosities, your hard limits. Nothing happens without your enthusiastic yes. Many women discover things about themselves they didn't know were there. I create the space for that safely.

I also understand the female body in a way that surprises most women. With the right preparation — usually starting with massage, relaxation, and taking the time your body actually needs — I've helped many women experience things they genuinely believed weren't possible for them. The kind of release that has your legs shaking and leaves you wondering why nobody showed you this before. I won't promise anything. But I will say that my hands, my patience, and my attention have a way of unlocking what's already there.

Common Questions

Everything you want to know
but haven't asked yet.

Most of my clients are first-timers. Many have been thinking about it for months before reaching out. That nervousness you're feeling right now is completely normal, and it tells me you care about the experience. You don't need to be experienced, confident, or have everything figured out. You just need to show up as yourself. I'll take care of the rest.

I hear this more than you'd think. You are enough, exactly as you are. I'm not here to judge your body — I'm here to make you feel good in it. Every woman I meet is different — different shape, different age, different story — and that's what makes each experience real. If someone has made you feel like you're not desirable, I'd like to gently challenge that.

That depends entirely on you. If you've booked the First Meet, we'll grab a coffee or go for a walk and just talk. For longer sessions, we might start with wine and conversation, move into a massage, and let things unfold naturally. There is no script. If at any point you want to slow down, pause, or stop — we do. No questions, no awkwardness, no guilt. Your comfort is the entire point.

Always. Consent isn't a one-time checkbox — it's ongoing. You can say "actually, I'd rather just talk" halfway through, and that's perfectly fine. You can say "I want more" and that's fine too. You can laugh, cry, go quiet, or be loud. Whatever you feel is welcome. I read body language naturally and I'll check in with you — but you always have the final word.

I genuinely enjoy what I do, and I genuinely enjoy the women I spend time with. I wouldn't do this if I didn't. The connection may be within a professional context, but the warmth, the attention, and the physical response — those are real. I'm not performing. I'm present.

Many of my clients are. There's no judgement here — only discretion. I don't know your circumstances and I don't need to. What I do know is that you've reached out because something in your life isn't being met, and you deserve to feel wanted and alive. Whatever your situation, it stays between us. Completely.

Non-negotiable for me. I undergo regular sexual health checks. I never share your personal information with anyone, and any screening data is deleted after we meet. For outcalls, I arrive and leave discreetly. I don't contact you unless you reach out first. If you'd prefer a hotel or neutral location rather than your home, I completely understand and can suggest options.

Screening protects both of us. I'll ask for a first name (doesn't need to be real), a contact method, and brief verification — this could be a short phone call or a photo of a non-sensitive ID where you can blur everything except your photo and date of birth. I know this feels vulnerable. The process asks for the minimum I need while giving you maximum confidence that I'm legitimate. If you have concerns, message me and we'll figure out what works.

Payment is via bank transfer or cash. If paying electronically, the transaction shows a neutral business name — nothing that references companion services. Many clients prefer cash for privacy, which is completely fine. A deposit is required to confirm your booking.

It happens, and there's no shame in it. Cancellations more than 24 hours before are fully refundable. Within 24 hours, I'll hold your deposit as credit toward a future booking — no expiry. I'd rather you come when you're ready than feel trapped into something you're unsure about.

Yes. I'm skilled in deep tissue and sensual massage. For some clients, massage is the entire booking — no expectation of anything beyond that. It's a beautiful way to experience physical intimacy and release tension without pressure. Many first-timers start here and decide what they'd like to explore next time.

You do — and all venue, dining, and incidental costs for the evening are at your expense. But I'm happy to help. If you've never booked a hotel for this kind of occasion, I know several beautiful, discreet spots around Sydney and can recommend something that suits your style and budget. Just ask when we chat — I'll point you in the right direction.

Your Privacy

Discretion isn't a feature. It's the foundation.

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I use a separate work phone. Your number never touches my personal life.

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Electronic payments show a neutral business name on your statement.

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Screening data is deleted after we meet. I don't keep files on clients.

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I never contact you first. You control when and how we communicate.

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No photos are ever taken without your explicit consent.

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I arrive and leave discreetly. No lingering, no conspicuous behaviour.

I know this takes courage.
You're in the right place.

The part of your week
that's just for you.